The Appeal of the Literary Leading Man

Superpower: knocking socks off.

John Thornton vs. Fitzwilliam Darcy. Superpower: knocking socks off.

Swept off your literary feet lately? If you have, then you’re preaching to the choir.

I can’t even begin to explain  the degree of vertigo I’ve experienced from being swept off my feet by characters ranging from Mr. Thornton (North and South) to Amon Bryne (Seven Realms Series), and everyone in between. And by “in between” I’m talking, Ron Weasley, Percy Jackson, Gale Hawthorne, Atticus Finch, Thorin Oakenshield, Faramir, Jay Gatsby, Simon Lewis, Peter Pan, Edward Ferrars, Finnick Odair, Han Alistair and Robb Stark. And that’s just the shortlist.

There’s a certain appeal of reading characters that are so insurmountably different from each other, but pluck at the same heartstrings. But my question is: how!? How do they do it? There must be some shared and inherent characteristic about these fellows that leaves them so appealing on the pages.

The search for that common denominator is on! But before this scavenger hunt begins, let’s outline how a leading man differs from their other run-of-the-mill XY-chromosome counterparts.

Definition: Fictional leading man [ˈliːdɪŋ] (noun): A character, imaginary, who contributes to the development of the plot through a combination of symbolic gestures, swoon-worthy one-liners and a penchant for arriving in the nick of time. Must be relatively endearing using one or more of humor, sarcasm or punctuality. A humble disposition never hurt either.

That’s not asking for too much. A leading man who can brood, but sarcastically. Who can ramble, but endearingly. Check your realistic expectations at the door, because we don’t need any Debbie Downers raining on our bibliophilic parade.

So, here’s a list of my top 8 Fictional Leading Men, and the characteristics that make them so appealing. The aim – to find that one thing that threads them all together.

8.  Jon Snow (Game of Thrones, George R.R. Martin)

  • – The Outcast 
  • – Independent and clever, despite having been placed second to his brother Robb his entire life.
  • – Loyal, but a little naive. It’s his tragic flaw.
  • – Introverted and honest. It’s nice to see a character who isn’t arrogant to the moon and back.
  • – He is challenged since infancy with not knowing who his mother is, and never belonging with the Starks. Growing up without a proper family and still turning out decently sane definitely deserves some accolades.


7. Noah Calhoun (The Notebook, Nicholas Sparks)

  • – The Patient One
  • – Has an endearing, quiet resolve.
  • – His goals are aimed high, he expects the stars and isn’t afraid of pursuing them even if failure is a risk
  • – Likes to live simply and slowly; appreciates little details
  • – Patience is his biggest virtue: with Allie, his friends and the house he builds.


6. Gale Hawthorne (Hunger Games, Susanne Collins)

  • – The Anti-Hero. 
  • – He is the anti-hero to Peeta Mellark’s blonde-haired glory. But, he put’s his feelings for Katniss aside and still treats Peeta with respect.
  • – Overlooked by others but tries to contribute to the cause of overthrowing the Capital the best he can.
  • – He isn’t anyone’s beacon or hero, despite working tirelessly with District 13 and the survivors of District 12, and he isn’t Katniss’ first pick when she must choose between him or Peeta. But, the ambition that Gale has when fighting the Capitol and his take-no-prisoners approach to solving the problem is a tribute to his quiet but threatening personality!


5.  Theodore Laurence aka “Laurie” (Little Women, Louisa May Alcott)

  • – The Confidante 
  • – Growing up amidst a group of girls can’t be a easy undertaking for any man, but Laurie is just so damn endearing.
  • – Crooked smile, penchant for adventure, love for books and learning – I don’t even know him and I still feel like I could tell him everything.


4. Amon Byrne (The Seven Realms Series, Cinda Williams Chima)

  • – The Moral One 
  • – Amon’s sturdy stoicism is one of my favorite qualities about him. He sacrifices a lot, emotionally throughout the duration of the series but his loyalty is evident. He is Raisa’s moral compass and protector, and although they don’t end up together its admirable that he places their friendship above any petty feelings he may otherwise have.


3. Tobias “Four” Eaton (Divergent, Veronica Roth)

  • – The Complicated One
  • – Tobias is layer upon layer of soft and rough edges, and that’s probably why he’s garnered such a large fan following.
  • – He risks a lot to protect Tris – deleting her simulation results, going in after Tris when he doesn’t agree with some of the choices she’s made. And let’s not forget how he beat up Drew so badly that his face resembled mashed potato, after Drew, Peter and Al attacked Tris.
  • – He’s brave, despite his fears.
  • – He can jump in and out of moving trains at will.


2. Atticus Finch (To Kill a Mockingbird, Harper Lee)

  • – The Mature One
  • – He takes the moral high ground, raises his children with dignity and is so well-spoken that it could make anyone weak in the knees.
  • -Believes in equality and justice during a very corrupt period in time.
  • – The hair – immaculate.


1. John Thornton (North and South, Elisabeth Gaskell)

  • – The Equal
  • – He treats Margaret like she’s completely his equal – whether it’s during their fights or their business talks. More relatable than any typical romance is a relationship that demonstrates that two people can be hot-headed and still respectful of each other.
  • – Thornton is the refined Mr.Darcy, in my opinion.
  • – Richard Armitage plays him in the BBC version – just let that sink in.


It’s the common thread of independence in character that connects the fictional leading men into this list. I still can’t narrow it down to one specific quality that leads to the instant appeal of a literary leading man, and my preferences change with every book I read – so all I can say is that I’m looking forward to expanding this list and making my real life expectations for a leading man skyrocket exponentially.


The Hunger Games Era

Becoming wrapped up in a book series was a feeling I’d been sorely missing during the last few months. The emotional investment you develop in the characters of a great novel is definitely the best part – even better is when you find other people who have not only read the same book, but are willing to discuss it obsessively (and compulsively) with you until the excitement wears off.

Most of my generation found that experience of kindred obsession in Harry Potter; and even when the books ended, there was still the hope of the movies to cling on to, so saying goodbye to that world wasn’t abrupt. But now, after the premiere of the final movie I was convinced that the awe-inspiring feeling of being invested of series bigger than ones’ self would be near impossible to stumble upon again.

Lightening never strikes in the same place twice, right? What were the chances of finding another hit series so soon?

I meandered through series for a while hoping that devotion would return. It really was as melodramatic as it seems. Sometimes I felt a glimmer of it, but often I couldn’t make it past the first book of a series. The Great and Terrible Beauty series by Libba Bray was one that held my interest for a while; the promise of a movie made sweetened the appeal, but after three years of waiting for the motion picture, and three years of re-reading, my attention waned. So much sorrow, so much book-withdrawal!

Its one thing to enjoy a book, and its another be engrossed by it. The difference was obvious when I picked up the Hunger Games series by Suzanne Collins.

This book

This series blew my mind. It shocked my cardiovascular system back into functioning. It was fast paced, but well developed. The characters were all so flawed, but I found myself both siding with them and against them all the time.

When I anticipate the second book of a series at least 3/4 of the way into the first one, I know I’ve found a gem.

To sweeten the deal, a movie version has been placed into production, with cast and sets all lined up and at the ready. Harry Potter was a phenomenal book series, but I always found the movies sub-par, with the actors disappointing me more and more as they grew older. But the cast of this movie … I would be hard pressed to imagine people more fitting. This just adds to the excitement.

So, here’s a short synopsis to entice of anyone who hasn’t been introduced to this series, and to anyone who has, let this refresh your memory:

Katniss Everdeen, 16, lives a society that is the futuristic version of our own. The world as we know it has undergone a dystopian reincarnation . North America has been divided into 13 Districts, all controlled by the Capitol. Every year, since the new regime was established, the Capitol has devised an event called the Hunger Games to remind all people of the Districts of the control the Capitol holds over them (to prevent them from rebelling). Two children from each district compete in these annual Hunger Games, and the victor can only be crowned as the last person left alive. When Katniss is sent to compete in the games, a hidden agenda emerges for which she acts as the catalyst, and a revolution begins unlike anything she could have imagined.

The supporting characters of Peeta Mellark, Gale Hawthorne, Effie Trinket and Haymitch Abernathy are fantastic! No one is the stereotypical hero, everyone has flaws, and that is what is most endearing. The action is phenomenally written and the suspense is palpable. All in all, this series can be publically, privately and shamelessly obsessed over.

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